Counting the Cost

Who is this book for?

• This book would likely appeal to readers who have followed the Duggar family's story through their reality TV shows or media coverage.
• It would be particularly interesting for those curious about the behind-the-scenes reality of the family's life and the impact of growing up in a strict, religious environment.
• Former members of conservative Christian groups or those who have experienced controlling family dynamics may find Jill's story relatable and validating.
• Readers interested in memoirs about personal growth, breaking free from restrictive upbringings, and the challenges of establishing independence would also appreciate this book.

Who is unlikely to appreciate this book?

• Readers looking for a salacious tell-all or extensive details about family scandals may be disappointed, as Jill maintains some privacy and restraint in her narrative.
• Those who are strongly opposed to conservative Christian views might find the author's continued adherence to certain beliefs frustrating.
• Critics of reality TV exploitation or those sensitive to discussions of religious trauma may find parts of the book uncomfortable.
• Readers expecting high-quality prose or deep psychological insights might be underwhelmed by the writing style and level of introspection.
• Lastly, staunch supporters of the Duggar family or the IBLP movement may dislike the critical portrayal of Jim Bob Duggar and certain religious teachings.

Things online reviewers enjoyed about this book

• Provides an insider's perspective on the Duggar family and their reality TV show
• Exposes the manipulation and financial exploitation by Jim Bob Duggar
• Discusses the author's journey of breaking free from controlling religious teachings
• Offers insight into the challenges of leaving a high-control religious environment
• Addresses the impact of media exploitation on children
• Demonstrates the author's growth and journey towards independence
• Handles sensitive topics like abuse with care and respect for privacy
• Shows courage in speaking out against family dysfunction
• Provides validation for others from similar backgrounds
• Discusses the importance of therapy and setting boundaries

Things people didn't like as much about this book

• Writing quality is sometimes poor or rushed
• Lacks depth in exploring psychological impacts of abuse
• Doesn't fully address or critique problematic religious beliefs
• Glosses over some controversial topics like her husband's tweets
• Can be repetitive or overly detailed in some sections
• Maintains some conservative views that may be off-putting to some readers
• Doesn't provide a complete 'tell-all' that some readers may expect
• Can come across as tone-deaf on certain topics like missionary work
• May not go far enough in critiquing family members for some readers
• Potentially unnecessary public airing of family issues